Food for Thought

Today… got someone asking me

“What does it mean when u no longer feel comfortable with someone?”

Hmm… this question got me thinking

I got one friend which I’m not feeling to comfortable with right now, and few in the past…. when i look back and ask Why? Why do i feel uncomfortable with them... even though i used to be so close and have fun a lot....

Did I came up with an answer?? Here it is, I feel that... when we are close to someone and have lots of fun together, then the other person wants more of that feeling... and most of the times, become more and more demanding to the point that u feel like being chained. You must makes him/her happy, and whenever u say something wrong or do something wrong... he/she get mad... and when u feel depressed and u make them mad, bad thing happens. Well... of course we can get back together and be friend again... but the feeling will be different...

It's just my own opinion and answer though... maybe u got your own answer to the question that u might share :)

Then of course, after answering that question it's time to ask what is the solution then??, how can we go back to the good term and feeling we used to had with that somebody??

I learn one great mantra from my mentor that is "Forgive and Forget", its a simple word... yet if we apply it, we would never feel any grudge and angriness... Bad things happen, that's life but if we are able to overcome it together with that person we feel uncomfortable with, the bond created will be stronger than ever before. and i think when we feel uncomfortable with someone, we need to distance ourselves with them for a while... and ask Why? because, when we know what is the problem that us feel that way, then we can overcome it... there is no correct answer of course to this question, to this problem. The best advice i guess is to Do what you thing is right and don't regret on the think that u don't do....

This post been quite long haha... but i hope it can keep us thinking and improve our relations with the one we care in our life :)

Best of luck to you all my readers...